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Dear Friends,
You get a front row seat watching me mature! Part of being a
doula is taking risks and trying new things. The catch is to not let our egos be involved when we do. We have to figure some of the things we try won't work out. Often the first five times we do anything new, there will be challenges and imperfections.
If your inner recording is anything like mine, you'll feel that you're "less than" others because its taking you so
long to get it figured out. To counter that voice, I just decided that I didn't have to be perfect. I didn't have to wait until I'd perfected something to share it unless it REALLY mattered. My workshops matter - they don't debut until they're as close to being excellent as they can be. Newsletters? Not so much!
So you get to watch my skills evolve -
and my graphics - over the next several months.
I hope that this postcard reminds you to be gentler with yourself and less critical, and to let go when heart and sincerity matter more than performance. I also hope you'll be able to attend my next half day Communication Skills workshop, here in my hometown!
Warmly,
Amy